It's Your Time, It's Your Turn 🙌

I’m not one of those people for whom things have come easy….and what’s awesome about this is it’s given me a huge heart to help others in the same situation. In other words, if you’re in an energy of feeling left out, left behind, forgotten, forsaken I SEE you, I GET it, I AM YOU!

I also know a long wait doesn’t mean a forever wait, a slow start doesn’t equate to never starting, and your journey taking more time than another’s doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong path for you.

Because things have been tough in so many ways for me and I’ve had to wait for my stuff on many occasions, I KNOW how to ‘wait’ well, and I’ve seen for myself the pay offs that come when you stay the course, and keep the faith! I’m the queen of never giving up and not losing hope and it all being worth it in the end.

I’ve worked with lots of clients who really wanted to get pregnant and for whom it took a long time, and often they would tell me how unfair it felt to see others just falling pregnant without even trying. And of course it makes sense they’d feel this way. I realised a while back though that while it might seem as though all these other people are getting what they want with no effort or struggle and then not appreciating it once they have it, this wasn’t actually the case.

In reality, although those others seemed to have the same thing, they didn’t. Because a thing landing in your lap without you ever having really thought about it or truly desiring it is nothing like deeply wanting a thing, manifesting it on purpose, doing the inner work to become an energetic match for it and then maybe after a period of waiting and wanting…it comes to you! While it might appear that the ‘landed in their lap’ person falling pregnant is the same as the person for whom it takes an age and so on- it ISN’T! Yes, on paper they’re getting the same thing, but in reality the experience and ultimate satisfaction couldn’t be more different.

Along with this idea of wanting to soothe you anytime you have that ‘what about MEEEE?’ feeling, what was also on my mind as I wrote this month’s meditation was the idea that you could be as sure during your wait, on the journey, that it would all work out as you would be once it had. Like I say:

‘You can turn hindsight into foresight and the way you do that is with faith.’

I’ve been thinking a lot recently about how many times in my life I’ve worried about things (especially in my anxious days), only to think to myself- after the fact that it all turned out alright in the end- why did I worry? And it’s so powerful to relate this to manifesting….

Like I say in the meditation - feel the feels of ‘it is done’ before you see evidence of it; know ALL ALONG that it was written! THIS is so potent!

I really want you to know that the desires of your heart are your destiny, and speaking life into them on your journey ensures you’re not the one blocking them!

Can you imagine never worrying whether or not you’d get what you want even if it took a beat? How cool would it be to quit fretting about whether or not what you desire was on the way? How much unnecessary pain would you let go of? Just like all that unnecessary worry we’ve all put ourselves through.

I put this meditation in the soothing section because this entire notion feels so soothing….

I’ll leave you with one of my all time fave coaching questions that relates nicely to this topic:

If you knew everything was going to be ok, how would you feel? Who would you be? What would you do? The ultimate script flipping question to get you set for magic!

All the love,

Zofie x